What if I'm wrong?
I can't resist sharing this video by @ashanayaswami, which I mentioned earlier:
Most of us have so much karma to work out, we could learn the lessons we need to learn in quite a few different ways.
You have to be really highly advanced before there's only one road for you to take.
And if you're that advanced, you'll know it.
So if there are a lot of options in front of you, you might think that each one is absolutely destiny-determining, and that you can only do one of them.
Actually, that's not true.
Any one of them can be used to expand your consciousness, or to contract your consciousness.
So a lot of times, we don't know what to do because it really doesn't matter.